Wednesday, September 28, 2011

In the Beginning…

I must confess I have a complete disdain for the ABC series “the Bachelor”.  Besides being completely contrived and a method for somewhat attractive celeb – wanna - be’s to get discovered, I mostly hate their use of the cheesy catch phrases and that they all seem to fall in love way, way, way too often.  For that reason alone, I must apologize as we start here together because I’m going to go ahead and welcome you to the journey we are about to embark on.  While the bachelors and bachelorettes usually bastardize “the journey” to be a lust filled semi-reality relationship that has no real world chance of surviving, I mean it quite differently.  This is 100 percent reality. 

I'm embarking on a journey.  And, good news ... I'm taking you with me.  This one is a completely different journey.  It's one from the very beginning and will be the good, bad and ugly reality of how to successfully juggle the priorities of work and home.  It's the story (hopefully a good one) of a working mom who is going to have it all come hell or high water. 

So, who am I and why am I qualified to share my story with you?  Well, let’s just be honest … I’m no more qualified than you are.  I’ve always been an overachiever.  Since my first job in which I “managed” concession stands at age 13 to my current responsibilities as a director for a Fortune 500 company, success in business is something that makes me thrive. To the extreme, at 6 months pregnant with Beckham, I incorporated myself and started a children’s clothing company.  What else was I going to do on maternity leave than start a new business?  More on all of that at a later time, but I can summarize by saying it has been a fabulous decision and a wonderful experience. 

 Equally, I feel completely called to be a mother.  I grew up in an exceptional home with a very loving mother, father and sister.  You couldn't have scripted a 1950's sitcom with any more perfect love and affection than my family.  Sure, they aren't perfect, no one is ... but they are fabulous stock to call my own.  I have always wanted to be a mom and know that this is very important to me and my family.  My family is my top priority on this earth.  Sure, sometimes it may seem like a customer demand is top of mind, but always … from here on out my loving, wonderful family is my goal and ultimate.  As of writing this, my little guy is not even three months old, and I know that he is my top focus.  I already have the first 20 years of his life planned, so I guess he has that going for him.  I’m not sure when I should break the news to him that he’s playing the piano or viola, that he will be bi-lingual at a minimum, that his fall back school should be my alma mater or that his career choices start with CEO and end with doctor.  Oh… wait, I should go ahead and confess; I’m a total, control freak, Type A, aggressive self starter.  My poor husband and dear friends will completely and honestly agree with that statement.  Hey, at least I’m honest.

Ok… back to my point.  I’m just like you, trying to make it as an everyday Wonder Woman.  I’m a little cynical, I’m a little raw but it’s real and from the heart.  I’m here to share my stories with a little humor we can all relate to and provide a little mentorship at the same time.  We CAN and WILL do it all!

Join me on this “journey” as we conquer everything in our path.  Look out world, the new  generation of Boardroom Mommies are here to make it happen!